I think it would be difficult to implement what you’re asking for without needing to make the decision about whether investing time in this (or other) subjects is worth anyone’s time on behalf of others.
If you notice in yourself that you have conflicting feelings about whether something is good for you to be doing, e.g., in the sense which you’ve described: that you feel pulled in by this, but have misgivings about it, then I recommend considering this situation to be that you have uncertainty about what you ought to be doing, as opposed to being more certain that you should be doing something else, and only that you have some kind of addiction to drama or something like that.
It may in fact be that you feel pulled in because you actually can add value to the discussion, or at least that watching this is giving you some new knowledge in some way. It’s at least a possibility.
Ultimately, it should be up to you, so if you’re convinced it’s not for you, so be it. However, I feel uncomfortable not allowing people to decide that for themselves.
I think it would be difficult to implement what you’re asking for without needing to make the decision about whether investing time in this (or other) subjects is worth anyone’s time on behalf of others.
If you notice in yourself that you have conflicting feelings about whether something is good for you to be doing, e.g., in the sense which you’ve described: that you feel pulled in by this, but have misgivings about it, then I recommend considering this situation to be that you have uncertainty about what you ought to be doing, as opposed to being more certain that you should be doing something else, and only that you have some kind of addiction to drama or something like that.
It may in fact be that you feel pulled in because you actually can add value to the discussion, or at least that watching this is giving you some new knowledge in some way. It’s at least a possibility.
Ultimately, it should be up to you, so if you’re convinced it’s not for you, so be it. However, I feel uncomfortable not allowing people to decide that for themselves.