Data point: I am physically (and I am figuring, genotypically) female but have never felt that I have an “internal feminine identity” of any kind. I used to think the whole idea of such an internal identity was a socially-imposed myth. It was not until I encountered trans women / trans men who very, very clearly had an internal identification that strongly differed from their sex phenotype that it became evident to me that some people (and possibly most cisgendered persons, even) really and truly did have an internal gender “sense”.
Data point: I am physically (and I am figuring, genotypically) female but have never felt that I have an “internal feminine identity” of any kind.
For opposite values of sex and gender, the same goes for me. To the extent that I do conform to certain masculine stereotypes I don’t view them as critical to my identity, just another semi-arbitrary socially constructed category that I belong to.
In my case, I had (often vastly) reduced exposure to most of the transmission vectors I would expect social gender identity memes to have. Out of curiousity, if it’s not too personal, was your childhood particularly atypical in exposure to type of social environments/mass media/&c.?
The thing I’ve heard said about it is “if you’re cisgendered, you’re as aware of your own gender as a fish is of water” (where cisgendered == not transgendered). I don’t know how you’d measure whether that was so.
Data point: I am physically (and I am figuring, genotypically) female but have never felt that I have an “internal feminine identity” of any kind. I used to think the whole idea of such an internal identity was a socially-imposed myth. It was not until I encountered trans women / trans men who very, very clearly had an internal identification that strongly differed from their sex phenotype that it became evident to me that some people (and possibly most cisgendered persons, even) really and truly did have an internal gender “sense”.
For opposite values of sex and gender, the same goes for me. To the extent that I do conform to certain masculine stereotypes I don’t view them as critical to my identity, just another semi-arbitrary socially constructed category that I belong to.
In my case, I had (often vastly) reduced exposure to most of the transmission vectors I would expect social gender identity memes to have. Out of curiousity, if it’s not too personal, was your childhood particularly atypical in exposure to type of social environments/mass media/&c.?
The thing I’ve heard said about it is “if you’re cisgendered, you’re as aware of your own gender as a fish is of water” (where cisgendered == not transgendered). I don’t know how you’d measure whether that was so.