Aren’t Graham and Dennett talking about different things entirely? Dennett is trying to help us understand better how materialism is compatible with having free will and a conscious self; his prescription here is to avoid a common pitfall, that of dismissing all “upwards” processing of perception and all “downwards” action-starting signals as “mechanical computing, not part of the self” and locating the Cartesian self at the zero-extension intersection of these two processes. It is better to think of the self as extended in both directions. When Graham says “keep your identity small”, he is talking about a different sense of “identity” and “small”, roughly “do not describe yourself with labels because you might become overly invested in them and lose objectivity and perspective”.
Aren’t Graham and Dennett talking about different things entirely? Dennett is trying to help us understand better how materialism is compatible with having free will and a conscious self; his prescription here is to avoid a common pitfall, that of dismissing all “upwards” processing of perception and all “downwards” action-starting signals as “mechanical computing, not part of the self” and locating the Cartesian self at the zero-extension intersection of these two processes. It is better to think of the self as extended in both directions. When Graham says “keep your identity small”, he is talking about a different sense of “identity” and “small”, roughly “do not describe yourself with labels because you might become overly invested in them and lose objectivity and perspective”.