The statement in the quote does not seem to follow, assuming that you have the choice of simply not saying anything. Passing judgement suggests that you actuallly have to let someone else know what you think. On the subject of the value of judgement, it is hard to understand why people are so averse to being judged. Whether someone is being kind or malicious by telling you what they honestly think of your actions it still gives you better information to make future choices.
Is it any harder to understand than why some people experience as a negative stimulus being told they have a fatal illness, or stepping on a scale and discovering they weigh more than they’d like, or being told that there are termites in their walls?
But it’s a phenomenon that we as rationalists should resist. If I am dying, or fat, or living with termites, I want to know—after all, there may be something I can do about it.
The statement in the quote does not seem to follow, assuming that you have the choice of simply not saying anything. Passing judgement suggests that you actuallly have to let someone else know what you think. On the subject of the value of judgement, it is hard to understand why people are so averse to being judged. Whether someone is being kind or malicious by telling you what they honestly think of your actions it still gives you better information to make future choices.
Is it any harder to understand than why some people experience as a negative stimulus being told they have a fatal illness, or stepping on a scale and discovering they weigh more than they’d like, or being told that there are termites in their walls?
No harder, because it’s the same phenomenon.
But it’s a phenomenon that we as rationalists should resist. If I am dying, or fat, or living with termites, I want to know—after all, there may be something I can do about it.
Absolutely agreed.