“Just being stupid” and “just doing the wrong thing” are rarely helpful views
I agree. What I means was something like:
If the OP describes a skill, then the first problem (the kid that wants to be a writer) is so very easy to solve, that I feel I’m not learning much about how that skill works. The second problem (Carol) seems too hard for me. I doubt it’s actually solvable using the described skill.
I think this misses the point, and damages your “should” center
Potentially, yes. I’m deliberately proposing something that might be a little dangerous. I feel my should center is already broken and/or doing more harm to me than the other way around.
“Smoking is bad for my health,” “On net I think smoking is worth it,” and “I should do things that I think are on net worth doing.”
That’s definitely not good enough for me. I never smoked in my life. I don’t think smoking is worth it. And if I were smoking, I don’t think I would stop just because I think it’s a net harm. And I do think that, because I don’t want to think about the harm of smoking or the diffiicutly of quitting, I’d avoid learning about either of those two.
ADDED: First meaning of “I should-1 do X” is “a rational agent would do X”. Second meaning (idiosyncratic to me) of “I should-2 do X” is “do X” is the advice I need to hear. should-2 is based on my (miss-)understanding of Consequentialist-Recommendation Consequentialism. The problem with should-1 is that I interpret “I shoud-1 do X” to mean that I should feel guilty if I don’t do X, which is definitely not helpful.
I agree. What I means was something like: If the OP describes a skill, then the first problem (the kid that wants to be a writer) is so very easy to solve, that I feel I’m not learning much about how that skill works. The second problem (Carol) seems too hard for me. I doubt it’s actually solvable using the described skill.
Potentially, yes. I’m deliberately proposing something that might be a little dangerous. I feel my should center is already broken and/or doing more harm to me than the other way around.
That’s definitely not good enough for me. I never smoked in my life. I don’t think smoking is worth it. And if I were smoking, I don’t think I would stop just because I think it’s a net harm. And I do think that, because I don’t want to think about the harm of smoking or the diffiicutly of quitting, I’d avoid learning about either of those two.
ADDED: First meaning of “I should-1 do X” is “a rational agent would do X”. Second meaning (idiosyncratic to me) of “I should-2 do X” is “do X” is the advice I need to hear. should-2 is based on my (miss-)understanding of Consequentialist-Recommendation Consequentialism. The problem with should-1 is that I interpret “I shoud-1 do X” to mean that I should feel guilty if I don’t do X, which is definitely not helpful.