The only ones to love a martyr’s actions are those who did not love them.
That isn’t true. If I love someone and they martyr themselves (literally or figuratively) in a way that is the unambiguously and overwhelmingly optimal way to fulfill both their volition and my own then I will love the martyr’s actions. If you say I do not love the martyr or do not love their actions due to some generalization then you are just wrong.
Agreed… but also, this gets complicated because of the role of external constraints.
I can love someone, “love” what they do in the context of the environment in which they did it (I put love here in scare quotes because I’m not sure I mean the same thing by it when applied to an action, but it’s close enough for casual conversation), and hate the fact that they were in such an environment to begin with, and if so my feelings about it can easily get confused.
Unfortunately, most people don’t view things this way. I figured that so long as we were discussing a show based on how humans try to rationalize away and fight against the truly rational optimum, I might as well throw out a comment on how such people react to truly rational optimizers (martyrs).
That isn’t true. If I love someone and they martyr themselves (literally or figuratively) in a way that is the unambiguously and overwhelmingly optimal way to fulfill both their volition and my own then I will love the martyr’s actions. If you say I do not love the martyr or do not love their actions due to some generalization then you are just wrong.
Agreed… but also, this gets complicated because of the role of external constraints.
I can love someone, “love” what they do in the context of the environment in which they did it (I put love here in scare quotes because I’m not sure I mean the same thing by it when applied to an action, but it’s close enough for casual conversation), and hate the fact that they were in such an environment to begin with, and if so my feelings about it can easily get confused.
Ding, rationalist level up!
Unfortunately, most people don’t view things this way. I figured that so long as we were discussing a show based on how humans try to rationalize away and fight against the truly rational optimum, I might as well throw out a comment on how such people react to truly rational optimizers (martyrs).