[Keep] cutting your expenses and read about financial independence.
Stop running at [bad] proxies for the thing you’re interested in, and figure out how to run at the thing you’re interested in.
There’s a voice in the back of your head that will always find something to complain about in every situation. [I now believe this is what Buddhism means by “unsatisfyingness”]. Sometimes the secret will be to recognize that the voice is constant and adjust your expectations accordingly.
Other people are not there to entertain you, or fulfill you.
I likely could have saved two or more romantic and personal relationships if I’d be more accepting of the last two points.
[Keep] cutting your expenses and read about financial independence. Stop running at [bad] proxies for the thing you’re interested in, and figure out how to run at the thing you’re interested in. There’s a voice in the back of your head that will always find something to complain about in every situation. [I now believe this is what Buddhism means by “unsatisfyingness”]. Sometimes the secret will be to recognize that the voice is constant and adjust your expectations accordingly. Other people are not there to entertain you, or fulfill you.
I likely could have saved two or more romantic and personal relationships if I’d be more accepting of the last two points.