I’m curious, to what merit does the social stigma have in stimulating hesitation in this instance? Is that not defiant of the consequence you’re trying to bring to yourself? To utilize vocalization for enhanced cognitive effects is to desire enhanced cognitive effects. It matters, and surely more than irrelevancies. This value is much better said than done, but don’t these workarounds limit development?
My friend and I would go on long walks, and there would occasionally be an bystander taking his own, a dog roaming the streets, cars going by, etc. I became annoyed at suppressing myself, and took it as a challenge to develop focus. My friend and I termed the situation “third-party syndrome”, and every time a distraction came, we would mentally recognize the occurrence, and choose to continue our conversation as if the third party were non-existent. Eventually, we got pretty good at it.
Ideally, it would get to the point where we would subconsciously register it, and not even have any break in flow. Recognition to it wouldn’t be much more than to see the road turns right only or that there’s a slim branch on the path. It requires a development of certainty—that the value of what others think is stifled in this regard. It requires confidence in the action you’ve chosen to take.
Obviously, there are some cases in which rationality will dictate some other response. For instance, to objectivize courtesy (exploring matters of controversy), or preserve yourself in a situation where it actually matters.
I’m curious, to what merit does the social stigma have in stimulating hesitation in this instance? Is that not defiant of the consequence you’re trying to bring to yourself? To utilize vocalization for enhanced cognitive effects is to desire enhanced cognitive effects. It matters, and surely more than irrelevancies. This value is much better said than done, but don’t these workarounds limit development?
My friend and I would go on long walks, and there would occasionally be an bystander taking his own, a dog roaming the streets, cars going by, etc. I became annoyed at suppressing myself, and took it as a challenge to develop focus. My friend and I termed the situation “third-party syndrome”, and every time a distraction came, we would mentally recognize the occurrence, and choose to continue our conversation as if the third party were non-existent. Eventually, we got pretty good at it.
Ideally, it would get to the point where we would subconsciously register it, and not even have any break in flow. Recognition to it wouldn’t be much more than to see the road turns right only or that there’s a slim branch on the path. It requires a development of certainty—that the value of what others think is stifled in this regard. It requires confidence in the action you’ve chosen to take.
Obviously, there are some cases in which rationality will dictate some other response. For instance, to objectivize courtesy (exploring matters of controversy), or preserve yourself in a situation where it actually matters.