Following a bit of back and forth debate, the EA organiser looked disappointed and said “I’m confused.”, then turned his back on my friend.
I don’t like analogizing EA to a religious movement, but I think such an analogy is appropriate in this instance. If I went to a Christian gathering, accompanying a devout friend, and someone came up to me and asked, “Oh, I haven’t seen you before, which church do you attend?” I would reply, “Oh, I’m not Christian.” Then if, after a bit of discussion, that person chose to turn and walk away, I wouldn’t be offended. In fact, them turning and walking away is one of the better outcomes. Far better than them attempting to continue proselytize at me for the rest of the event.
In this case, the organizer encountered a person who was clearly not bought into EA, ascertained that they were not bought into EA after a short discussion, and then chose to walk away. While that’s not the friendliest response, it’s hardly the worst thing in the world.
I don’t like analogizing EA to a religious movement, but I think such an analogy is appropriate in this instance. If I went to a Christian gathering, accompanying a devout friend, and someone came up to me and asked, “Oh, I haven’t seen you before, which church do you attend?” I would reply, “Oh, I’m not Christian.” Then if, after a bit of discussion, that person chose to turn and walk away, I wouldn’t be offended. In fact, them turning and walking away is one of the better outcomes. Far better than them attempting to continue proselytize at me for the rest of the event.
In this case, the organizer encountered a person who was clearly not bought into EA, ascertained that they were not bought into EA after a short discussion, and then chose to walk away. While that’s not the friendliest response, it’s hardly the worst thing in the world.
I agree. I don’t think this kind of behaviour is the worst thing in the world. I just think it is instrumentally irrational.