Also, maybe you have an honesty baseline for telling people you dislike their cooking, and maybe your friend understands that, but that doesn’t necessarily mean they’re going to match your norms.
My experience is that however painstakingly you make it clear that you want people to be honest with you or act a certain way, sometimes they just won’t. You just have to accept that people have different personalities and things they’re comfortable with, and try to love the ways they differ from you rather than resenting it.
Also, maybe you have an honesty baseline for telling people you dislike their cooking, and maybe your friend understands that, but that doesn’t necessarily mean they’re going to match your norms.
My experience is that however painstakingly you make it clear that you want people to be honest with you or act a certain way, sometimes they just won’t. You just have to accept that people have different personalities and things they’re comfortable with, and try to love the ways they differ from you rather than resenting it.