I think it means something more like, “don’t expect the behaviors that pleased adults when you were a child, to get you anywhere as an adult. Children are considered pleasing when they’re submissive and dependent, but adults are respected for pleasing themselves first.”
I think it means something more like, “don’t expect the behaviors that pleased adults when you were a child, to get you anywhere as an adult. Children are considered pleasing when they’re submissive and dependent, but adults are respected for pleasing themselves first.”
The rationality connection is, well, winning.