Which begs the question: why is it so that my native language that I spoke since I was two and everyone in my circle understands, is less comfortable for me than a foreign language I am not even confident in my skill with, possess a limited vocabulary (compared to Russian), and have much less practice in?
The comfort a language brings comes with it’s associations. If you are introverted you likely had a lot of negative social experiences in your native language.
If you learned English in a more comfortable enviroment it likely brings other associations with it.
I’m personally more light and make jokes when dealing in English than in German. I got my verbal English via Toastmasters and the rest via the internet.
Okay, a valid hypothesis, but I don’t think it is actually the case. I learned English for 2 years with a teacher, and then via books, internet and video games. I certainly did have negative social experiences in Russian. But the comfortableness doesn’t feel like being more light and effortless. More like more powerful, less unwieldy, more precise and compact. As a programmer, I often have the same set of feelings with programming languages, and I assure you, I wasn’t bullied in school in C++.
Internet, books and video games don’t produce lightness. You might feel powerful while playing a video game but you don’t joke around.
The Toastmasters social enviroment on the other hand does produce that vibe.
When I was socially inconfident, I did very often choose English over German. As I personally got more confident I started using German with people who don’t speak it (I’m living in Berlin, it happens) to have them tell me to switch to English.
As a programmer, I often have the same set of feelings with programming languages, and I assure you, I wasn’t bullied in school in C++.
C++ education is still very dry. A language like Python with it’s Zen has values like “There should be one—and preferably only one—obvious way to do it.”
A lot of the python tutorials are written more lively than c++ tutorials.
I’m not saying that languages are the same when you ignore personal conditioning. I know a few people with strong NLP background where effects of language really matter who say the can’t simply translate things one-to-one.
Compactness however is relative. If you translate a single German sentence into English the English one is often shorter.
On the other hand one author I know with an NLP background said she probalby would need halve the text write a book in German than in English you don’t say things as directly in English than you do in German.
There is less hinting around.
I recently watched the Liar’s game with subtitles and it contained a bunch of instances where forms of politeness were used to express meaning that simply don’t exist the same way in English.
Kinship terms are also very intestesting. English doesn’t distinguish between cousins on the mothers side and on the fathers side. Other languages do.
The comfort a language brings comes with it’s associations. If you are introverted you likely had a lot of negative social experiences in your native language.
If you learned English in a more comfortable enviroment it likely brings other associations with it. I’m personally more light and make jokes when dealing in English than in German. I got my verbal English via Toastmasters and the rest via the internet.
Okay, a valid hypothesis, but I don’t think it is actually the case. I learned English for 2 years with a teacher, and then via books, internet and video games. I certainly did have negative social experiences in Russian. But the comfortableness doesn’t feel like being more light and effortless. More like more powerful, less unwieldy, more precise and compact. As a programmer, I often have the same set of feelings with programming languages, and I assure you, I wasn’t bullied in school in C++.
Internet, books and video games don’t produce lightness. You might feel powerful while playing a video game but you don’t joke around.
The Toastmasters social enviroment on the other hand does produce that vibe.
When I was socially inconfident, I did very often choose English over German. As I personally got more confident I started using German with people who don’t speak it (I’m living in Berlin, it happens) to have them tell me to switch to English.
C++ education is still very dry. A language like Python with it’s Zen has values like “There should be one—and preferably only one—obvious way to do it.” A lot of the python tutorials are written more lively than c++ tutorials.
I’m not saying that languages are the same when you ignore personal conditioning. I know a few people with strong NLP background where effects of language really matter who say the can’t simply translate things one-to-one.
Compactness however is relative. If you translate a single German sentence into English the English one is often shorter. On the other hand one author I know with an NLP background said she probalby would need halve the text write a book in German than in English you don’t say things as directly in English than you do in German.
There is less hinting around.
I recently watched the Liar’s game with subtitles and it contained a bunch of instances where forms of politeness were used to express meaning that simply don’t exist the same way in English.
Kinship terms are also very intestesting. English doesn’t distinguish between cousins on the mothers side and on the fathers side. Other languages do.