Right and in my mind canon people are free to respond strongly like ‘I think this is a central example of something that is really bad but am having a hard time articulating, can you say more about what you mean?’
Because obviously in most communities people would be like wait what? Why would you give the person more ammo after they just said you are bad? To which you’d then have to attempt to point them to the idea that if you are actually confused as badly as they think you might be that would be super valuable to know.
Right and in my mind canon people are free to respond strongly like ‘I think this is a central example of something that is really bad but am having a hard time articulating, can you say more about what you mean?’ Because obviously in most communities people would be like wait what? Why would you give the person more ammo after they just said you are bad? To which you’d then have to attempt to point them to the idea that if you are actually confused as badly as they think you might be that would be super valuable to know.