Am lawyer. Have deposed 30+ people, defended 30+ depositions, and was a “potted plant” or active observer in another 20. All the items you mention from the article are good advice for learning how to depose someone.
I haven’t done any CFAR except insofar as it’s baked into the material here. I’m guessing CFAR assumes that both participants at least believe that they want the same thing—to model reality better, to reach and resolve a crux, something(s) along those lines. Certainly for crux-hunting, you need two people who are fundamentally collaborating.
Depositions are...really different. Background might help. 100 years ago, relative to today, everybody just showed up at trial with surprise witnesses and documents in what is known as “trial by ambush.” This was like Texas Hold ’Em.
The Federal Rules of Civil Procedure, first published in 1938, aimed to do things dramatically differently by requiring each side to give the other side all of its important documents and witness information, and made depositions a bigger and more useful thing. This is like Texas Hold ’Em except that your hole cards are face up and visible to the other players. The idea was to encourage settlement (and thereby reduce the number of cases on court dockets, and the attendant administrative burden) by forcing everyone to give the other side all the stuff that hurt their case, instead of just the stuff that helped their case, or nothing at all. Every State I know of has since followed suit with similar rules frameworks to govern litigation in State courts. It really works at incentivizing settlement.
Depositions serve two purposes:
Learn about the facts your side doesn’t already know (adversarial; as you can imagine, lawyers try not to disclose bad facts or documents, but it’s easier to get deponents to tell you that stuff in person for the usual savannah-monkey-brain reasons).
Tie down the witness’s trial testimony (adversarial; if Witness 1 says X at deposition, and Y at trial, you get to beat them up in front of the jury, and it’s really fun).
Notice that nobody’s incentive here is “expose the truth”—not the courts’, not the parties’. Not until a jury is impaneled is anyone sworn to do anything along those lines.
At bottom, depositions are a fight. Most witnesses have been prepared by the other side’s lawyer and are not going to make it easy on you. You have to use the techniques above to pin them down, and they fight like cornered animals as you do so. People sweat, get hangry, pit their own executive function against the lawyer’s, play stupid word games they would never play in front of a jury of strangers, answer evasively, interpose leading objections to hint to the witness how to answer the question. There are rules for when you can abort a deposition based on witness or attorney misconduct, because of course we need such a rule.
Setting apart some time for a witness to actually try recalling further information is almost exactly the same as resolve cycles.
Most of the time, if I’m doing this to a witness, it’s because I’m trying to get them to say something they don’t want to disclose and I think that me staring at them in silence will trigger savannah-monkey-brain compliance instincts, not because I think they need more time to remember stuff. They probably met with their lawyer for at least an hour in advance. They probably didn’t sleep well the night before because they were thinking about the case.
“False beliefs feel the same as true ones” means that witnesses are probably too willing to nail down their testimony and end up accidentally perjuring themselves
This is vanishingly rare in my practice. If the witness’s lawyer did zir job, the witness is maximally unwilling to be nailed down.
“Boxing in by bracketing” or “calibrated estimation” is missing from the handbook
I have started incorporating rationalist-adjacent concepts into my deposition strategies, but it’s really only effective against expert witnesses like engineers, surveyors, doctors, lawyers, for attacking the factual and inferential underpinnings of their opinion-for-hire. Most lay witnesses really, truly don’t understand what you’re talking about if you start getting into statistics or even really basic epistemics.
“Convincing a witness to accept a standard” uses the framework of policy level decisionmaking: making a witness accept that a norm applies to them is easier by having them endorse it first; it then becomes blatantly hypocritical for them to reject it.
This doesn’t seem like what policy-level decisionmaking is about per the handbook. PLD is more like “it’s hard to decide edge cases consistently with your true values when you’re fatigued, so pre-commit to a decision policy matching your true values when you’re not fatigued”. I can see a connection to the standard-endorsing strategy, but I have to squint pretty hard.
Edited: to remove ableist language and replace it with the “trial by ambush” phrase.
Certainly for crux-hunting, you need two people who are fundamentally collaborating.
It has been pointed out to me that therapy is analogous to depositions in a way relevant to your argument: in therapy both patient and therapist are there with the stated purpose of resolving emotional tensions in the patient, but the patient can prove unhelpful or actively oppose the therapist’s probes.
I think this is an example of an interaction that is collaborative in principle, but where techniques designed for adversarial interactions may do good.
I agree with that particular observation about therapy, having been therapized effectively myself (big ups to therapy!), but I fundamentally trusted that the therapist knew what ze was doing—based on diplomas on the wall, recommendations from trusted sources, and the first session with zir. The time that I did not feel that fundamental trust, I didn’t go back. Thus, when a therapist asked me a question that bothered me, I believed that 1) ze had a good professional reason for asking, so I should figure out the answer and 2) my discomfort about the question was worth investigating as well. And maybe even 3) the discomfort is worth pushing through because it’s a signal of a possible avenue for a breakthrough, and given that I value previous breakthroughs at $2,000 cash or maybe more if I thought hard about it, the discomfort is exciting in a way.
Contrast: If I’m a deponent, and the lawyer asks me a question that bothers me, my (sensible) belief is that the truthful answer is bad for my case, meaning that the amount of money I’m going to {win/lose} is going to go {down/up} when I answer. If you thought that answering a certain question truthfully would cost you $10,000 USD, you wouldn’t answer it if you didn’t have to.
Thus, another crucial distinguishing element of a deposition is that the deponent will face serious consequences if ze doesn’t sit for zir deposition: if the deponent is a party to the lawsuit, a judgment will probably be entered against zir, and if the deponent is a non-party who has been properly served with a valid deposition subpoena, ze will be held in contempt and theoretically jailed until ze does comply. Few people, by contrast, are compelled by sanction of law into therapy or crux-hunting.
Am lawyer. Have deposed 30+ people, defended 30+ depositions, and was a “potted plant” or active observer in another 20. All the items you mention from the article are good advice for learning how to depose someone.
I haven’t done any CFAR except insofar as it’s baked into the material here. I’m guessing CFAR assumes that both participants at least believe that they want the same thing—to model reality better, to reach and resolve a crux, something(s) along those lines. Certainly for crux-hunting, you need two people who are fundamentally collaborating.
Depositions are...really different. Background might help. 100 years ago, relative to today, everybody just showed up at trial with surprise witnesses and documents in what is known as “trial by ambush.” This was like Texas Hold ’Em.
The Federal Rules of Civil Procedure, first published in 1938, aimed to do things dramatically differently by requiring each side to give the other side all of its important documents and witness information, and made depositions a bigger and more useful thing. This is like Texas Hold ’Em except that your hole cards are face up and visible to the other players. The idea was to encourage settlement (and thereby reduce the number of cases on court dockets, and the attendant administrative burden) by forcing everyone to give the other side all the stuff that hurt their case, instead of just the stuff that helped their case, or nothing at all. Every State I know of has since followed suit with similar rules frameworks to govern litigation in State courts. It really works at incentivizing settlement.
Depositions serve two purposes:
Learn about the facts your side doesn’t already know (adversarial; as you can imagine, lawyers try not to disclose bad facts or documents, but it’s easier to get deponents to tell you that stuff in person for the usual savannah-monkey-brain reasons).
Tie down the witness’s trial testimony (adversarial; if Witness 1 says X at deposition, and Y at trial, you get to beat them up in front of the jury, and it’s really fun).
Notice that nobody’s incentive here is “expose the truth”—not the courts’, not the parties’. Not until a jury is impaneled is anyone sworn to do anything along those lines.
At bottom, depositions are a fight. Most witnesses have been prepared by the other side’s lawyer and are not going to make it easy on you. You have to use the techniques above to pin them down, and they fight like cornered animals as you do so. People sweat, get hangry, pit their own executive function against the lawyer’s, play stupid word games they would never play in front of a jury of strangers, answer evasively, interpose leading objections to hint to the witness how to answer the question. There are rules for when you can abort a deposition based on witness or attorney misconduct, because of course we need such a rule.
Most of the time, if I’m doing this to a witness, it’s because I’m trying to get them to say something they don’t want to disclose and I think that me staring at them in silence will trigger savannah-monkey-brain compliance instincts, not because I think they need more time to remember stuff. They probably met with their lawyer for at least an hour in advance. They probably didn’t sleep well the night before because they were thinking about the case.
This is vanishingly rare in my practice. If the witness’s lawyer did zir job, the witness is maximally unwilling to be nailed down.
I have started incorporating rationalist-adjacent concepts into my deposition strategies, but it’s really only effective against expert witnesses like engineers, surveyors, doctors, lawyers, for attacking the factual and inferential underpinnings of their opinion-for-hire. Most lay witnesses really, truly don’t understand what you’re talking about if you start getting into statistics or even really basic epistemics.
This doesn’t seem like what policy-level decisionmaking is about per the handbook. PLD is more like “it’s hard to decide edge cases consistently with your true values when you’re fatigued, so pre-commit to a decision policy matching your true values when you’re not fatigued”. I can see a connection to the standard-endorsing strategy, but I have to squint pretty hard.
Edited: to remove ableist language and replace it with the “trial by ambush” phrase.
It has been pointed out to me that therapy is analogous to depositions in a way relevant to your argument: in therapy both patient and therapist are there with the stated purpose of resolving emotional tensions in the patient, but the patient can prove unhelpful or actively oppose the therapist’s probes.
I think this is an example of an interaction that is collaborative in principle, but where techniques designed for adversarial interactions may do good.
I agree with that particular observation about therapy, having been therapized effectively myself (big ups to therapy!), but I fundamentally trusted that the therapist knew what ze was doing—based on diplomas on the wall, recommendations from trusted sources, and the first session with zir. The time that I did not feel that fundamental trust, I didn’t go back. Thus, when a therapist asked me a question that bothered me, I believed that 1) ze had a good professional reason for asking, so I should figure out the answer and 2) my discomfort about the question was worth investigating as well. And maybe even 3) the discomfort is worth pushing through because it’s a signal of a possible avenue for a breakthrough, and given that I value previous breakthroughs at $2,000 cash or maybe more if I thought hard about it, the discomfort is exciting in a way.
Contrast: If I’m a deponent, and the lawyer asks me a question that bothers me, my (sensible) belief is that the truthful answer is bad for my case, meaning that the amount of money I’m going to {win/lose} is going to go {down/up} when I answer. If you thought that answering a certain question truthfully would cost you $10,000 USD, you wouldn’t answer it if you didn’t have to.
Thus, another crucial distinguishing element of a deposition is that the deponent will face serious consequences if ze doesn’t sit for zir deposition: if the deponent is a party to the lawsuit, a judgment will probably be entered against zir, and if the deponent is a non-party who has been properly served with a valid deposition subpoena, ze will be held in contempt and theoretically jailed until ze does comply. Few people, by contrast, are compelled by sanction of law into therapy or crux-hunting.
Thank you for the comment!