Wow, thanks for your willingness to test/falsify your statements, and I apologize for my rash judgment. Your idea just sounded to me to be too good to be true, so I wanted to be cautious.
And I would be glad to say I am completely satisfied with your answer. However, that is not the case yet, maybe just because the “mistakes” of the people trying to apply wholesomeness might still need a definition—a criterion according to which something is or is not a mistake.
However, if you provided such a definition, I might be another tester of this style of thinking.
The most straightforward criterion would probably be “things they themselves feel to be mistakes a year or two later”. That risks people just failing to own their mistakes so would only work with people I felt enough trust in to be honest with themselves. Alternatively you could have an impartial judge. (I’d rather defer to “someone reasonable making judgements” than try to define exactly what a mistake is, because the latter would cover a lot of ground and I don’t think I’d do a good job of it; also my claims don’t feel super sensitive to how mistakes are defined.)
Wow, thanks for your willingness to test/falsify your statements, and I apologize for my rash judgment. Your idea just sounded to me to be too good to be true, so I wanted to be cautious.
And I would be glad to say I am completely satisfied with your answer. However, that is not the case yet, maybe just because the “mistakes” of the people trying to apply wholesomeness might still need a definition—a criterion according to which something is or is not a mistake.
However, if you provided such a definition, I might be another tester of this style of thinking.
The most straightforward criterion would probably be “things they themselves feel to be mistakes a year or two later”. That risks people just failing to own their mistakes so would only work with people I felt enough trust in to be honest with themselves. Alternatively you could have an impartial judge. (I’d rather defer to “someone reasonable making judgements” than try to define exactly what a mistake is, because the latter would cover a lot of ground and I don’t think I’d do a good job of it; also my claims don’t feel super sensitive to how mistakes are defined.)