Does it feel wrong to anyone else that he’s basically complaining to a woman old enough to be his grandmother about how immature she is? This despite the fact that she’s proven herself repeatedly to be willing to listen to good advice, and has pulled his bacon out of the fire by quick-witted crisis management at least once?
Of course. This isn’t surprising behaviour, but it is behaviour that makes me think less of Harry. (That said, it’s one of his few traits that makes me actually think he’s eleven, so perhaps I should be grateful)
Immaturity may not be precisely correct, but he’s definitely not accusing her of incompetence. Irresponsibility, perhaps. He’s not saying that she tried and failed, he’s saying that she didn’t try. He’s saying that she’s just blindly playing a role, instead of actually acting responsibly, and that it’s so hard-wired into her that it’s not even worth him trying to correct it. Hard-wired irresponsibility is close enough to immaturity that it’s a reasonable approximation.
She’s handled a couple of crises well, but she didn’t gain very much respect for not scolding Harry for taking more money out of his vault than she thought he needed.
Does it feel wrong to anyone else that he’s basically complaining to a woman old enough to be his grandmother about how immature she is? This despite the fact that she’s proven herself repeatedly to be willing to listen to good advice, and has pulled his bacon out of the fire by quick-witted crisis management at least once?
He’s an angry 11 year old, and this isn’t the first time he’s yelled at her.
Of course. This isn’t surprising behaviour, but it is behaviour that makes me think less of Harry. (That said, it’s one of his few traits that makes me actually think he’s eleven, so perhaps I should be grateful)
He seems bad at using people. And that is a weakness, compared with his opponent.
Maturity and competence are not the same thing.
Immaturity may not be precisely correct, but he’s definitely not accusing her of incompetence. Irresponsibility, perhaps. He’s not saying that she tried and failed, he’s saying that she didn’t try. He’s saying that she’s just blindly playing a role, instead of actually acting responsibly, and that it’s so hard-wired into her that it’s not even worth him trying to correct it. Hard-wired irresponsibility is close enough to immaturity that it’s a reasonable approximation.
She’s handled a couple of crises well, but she didn’t gain very much respect for not scolding Harry for taking more money out of his vault than she thought he needed.