When I left the mormon church, this was one of the most common challenges I would get from family and church leaders. “Don’t you think family is important? Look at all the good things our ward does for each other? You disagree with X good thing the church teaches?” I think one of the most important steps to being able to walk away was realizing that I could take the things I thought were good with me, while leaving out the things that I thought were false or wrong. This might seem really obvious to an outsider, but when you are raised within a culture, it can actually be pretty difficult to disentangle parts of a belief system like that.
I think one of the most important steps to being able to walk away was realizing that I could take the things I thought were good with me, while leaving out the things that I thought were false or wrong.
When I left the mormon church, this was one of the most common challenges I would get from family and church leaders. “Don’t you think family is important? Look at all the good things our ward does for each other? You disagree with X good thing the church teaches?” I think one of the most important steps to being able to walk away was realizing that I could take the things I thought were good with me, while leaving out the things that I thought were false or wrong. This might seem really obvious to an outsider, but when you are raised within a culture, it can actually be pretty difficult to disentangle parts of a belief system like that.
I second this, thanks!