Question for the Kegan levels folks: I’ve noticed that I tend to regress to level 3 if I enter new environments that I don’t fully understand yet, and that this tends to cause mental issues because I don’t always have the affirmative social environment that level 3 needs. Do you relate? How do you deal with this?
Question for the Kegan levels folks: I’ve noticed that I tend to regress to level 3 if I enter new environments that I don’t fully understand yet, and that this tends to cause mental issues because I don’t always have the affirmative social environment that level 3 needs. Do you relate? How do you deal with this?
By dealing with trauma and taking shame and guilt as object.
By incorporating the need for belonging into my systemic understanding.
I had this for a long time but it’s pretty rare now.