Great point about the long vs short-term element! I wanted to say something about that in the post but couldn’t figure out how to fit it in, but I agree.
It later occurred to me that there are multiple purposes beyond timeframes. Filtering, to select more compatible initial matches, and expectation-setting and power-jockying early in the relationship may have competing choices for how to focus your profile. These factors are likely related, of course.
Great point about the long vs short-term element! I wanted to say something about that in the post but couldn’t figure out how to fit it in, but I agree.
It later occurred to me that there are multiple purposes beyond timeframes. Filtering, to select more compatible initial matches, and expectation-setting and power-jockying early in the relationship may have competing choices for how to focus your profile. These factors are likely related, of course.