This updated me, thank you. A fair amount, from “IDK, this sounds like it’s fairly likely to mainly be just people being sensitive about blunt confrontational communication in a context where blunt confrontational communication is called for” to “Maybe that, but sure sounds a lot like Nate has a general disregard for fellows—maybe there’s some internal story he has where his behavior would make sense if other people shared that story, but they don’t and that should be obvious and he should have not behaved that way given that they don’t”.
This updated me, thank you. A fair amount, from “IDK, this sounds like it’s fairly likely to mainly be just people being sensitive about blunt confrontational communication in a context where blunt confrontational communication is called for” to “Maybe that, but sure sounds a lot like Nate has a general disregard for fellows—maybe there’s some internal story he has where his behavior would make sense if other people shared that story, but they don’t and that should be obvious and he should have not behaved that way given that they don’t”.