But I think that, even as I endorse pushback against my offhand comment above, I do stand fairly firmly behind “if you and your partner have had what seems like a good relationship for 6-12 mo+, and this list of questions would cause you problems, that’s strong evidence of a real problem somewhere, whether it be in you, or your partner, or the line between you.”
I suspect that this is both true, and also that for many if not most people, the best way of dealing with that problem is simply to avoid it.
I suspect that this is both true, and also that for many if not most people, the best way of dealing with that problem is simply to avoid it.