This isn’t adverse. I don’t really care much what is the actual reasons of other people’s reproductive choices, my point is simply that after having made them, and it is like 0 or 1 kids, it makes more sense to adapt to society than to change it.
(BTW not actually that time consuming. Only if you believe fashionable bullshit that throwing gigantic amounts of attention to kids is necessary for them to turn into succesful and well-adjusted adults. In reality if every second evening is like “shut up and read a book and leave dad in peace to write one”, that is not actually harmful in any way. 50% of the outcome is genes and 50% is outside-the-family environment.)
This isn’t adverse. I don’t really care much what is the actual reasons of other people’s reproductive choices, my point is simply that after having made them, and it is like 0 or 1 kids, it makes more sense to adapt to society than to change it.
(BTW not actually that time consuming. Only if you believe fashionable bullshit that throwing gigantic amounts of attention to kids is necessary for them to turn into succesful and well-adjusted adults. In reality if every second evening is like “shut up and read a book and leave dad in peace to write one”, that is not actually harmful in any way. 50% of the outcome is genes and 50% is outside-the-family environment.)