I’m struggling to think of any actual examples of this behavior in action
If you’ve ever said or thought “Okay, just for the sake of argument, I’ll assume your point X is correct...” you were holding a position back in reserve.
One typical example is arguing with a religious nut that what he’s saying is incompatible with the teachings in his own holy book. Suppose he wins this argument (unlikely, I know, but bear with me...) and demonstrates that you were mistaken and no, his holy book really does teach that we should burn scientists as witches. Do you immediately conclude that yes, we should burn scientists as witches? No, because you don’t actually hold in high esteem the teachings in his holy book.
If you’ve ever said or thought “Okay, just for the sake of argument, I’ll assume your point X is correct...” you were holding a position back in reserve.
One typical example is arguing with a religious nut that what he’s saying is incompatible with the teachings in his own holy book. Suppose he wins this argument (unlikely, I know, but bear with me...) and demonstrates that you were mistaken and no, his holy book really does teach that we should burn scientists as witches. Do you immediately conclude that yes, we should burn scientists as witches? No, because you don’t actually hold in high esteem the teachings in his holy book.