Specifically, I think you should show your wife all the cool things you are interested in, starting with the noncontroversial ones.
Assuming that you don’t already do this, doing this signals “I am trying to convince you of something which I don’t want to talk about”. People notice when you act in ways that you haven’t before.
Assuming that you don’t already do this, doing this signals “I am trying to convince you of something which I don’t want to talk about”. People notice when you act in ways that you haven’t before.