My reasoning for adding the caveat in this particular instance was to fully disclose my stance. I’m inviting questions, and discussion is only aided when people have a better understanding of each other. If I had said that I am completely miserable and the negatives of being alive once already alive don’t outweigh the positives, I’d be of a completely different stance and I’d be understood completely differently.
I don’t think it lowers someone’s status to say they are not ok and I’m sorry that adding the above caveat bothered you. Clearly my comment was innocent and by more fully explaining my feelings I am I’m no way intentionally reinforcing anyone else’s lack of confidence.
My reasoning for adding the caveat in this particular instance was to fully disclose my stance. I’m inviting questions, and discussion is only aided when people have a better understanding of each other. If I had said that I am completely miserable and the negatives of being alive once already alive don’t outweigh the positives, I’d be of a completely different stance and I’d be understood completely differently.
I don’t think it lowers someone’s status to say they are not ok and I’m sorry that adding the above caveat bothered you. Clearly my comment was innocent and by more fully explaining my feelings I am I’m no way intentionally reinforcing anyone else’s lack of confidence.
Are you saying you don’t personally believe this or that it is a general rule that it does not?
Sorry—personally.
And it’s a shame that as a general rule it does.