I think there is plenty of potential to be tapped from this field—as long as it’s not coming from the wrong place.
What I’m concerned about is hard to describe, but what first springs to mind is what the opposite problem would look like.
Lets pretend we were a mostly-female group trying to attract men, and somebody suggested “well, we know what attracts men, ladies taking their clothes off!”
While I’m sure the membership would increase… it might not be quite the dynamic we’re aiming for. I think the same would happen if we tried to apply “attracting women” suggestions that are brought from the “only trying to have sex with them” subset of PUA
I am aware, though, as you have reiterated, that there are several fields of PUA that are more about understanding what women really want (even if they don’t know themselves).
I would actually, treally ruly (even though I’m a woman) be interested in hearing some suggestions based on knowledge gathered by these people.
Would you be willing to put in some work tracking down stuff in this subset of the field and coming up with some suggestions based on it?
I think there is plenty of potential to be tapped from this field—as long as it’s not coming from the wrong place.
What I’m concerned about is hard to describe, but what first springs to mind is what the opposite problem would look like.
Lets pretend we were a mostly-female group trying to attract men, and somebody suggested “well, we know what attracts men, ladies taking their clothes off!”
While I’m sure the membership would increase… it might not be quite the dynamic we’re aiming for. I think the same would happen if we tried to apply “attracting women” suggestions that are brought from the “only trying to have sex with them” subset of PUA
I am aware, though, as you have reiterated, that there are several fields of PUA that are more about understanding what women really want (even if they don’t know themselves).
I would actually, treally ruly (even though I’m a woman) be interested in hearing some suggestions based on knowledge gathered by these people.
Would you be willing to put in some work tracking down stuff in this subset of the field and coming up with some suggestions based on it?