Did you interpret me to say, “One should be sure that zero readers will feel offended?” I think that would clearly be incorrect. My point was that there are cases where one may believe that a bunch of readers may be offended, with relatively little cost to change things to make that not the case.
For instance, one could make lots of points that use alarmist language to poison the well, where the language is technically correct, but very predictably misunderstood.
I think there is obviously some line. I imagine you would as well. It’s not clear to me where that line is. I was trying to flag that I think some of the language in this post may have crossed it.
Apologies if my phrasing was misunderstood. I’ll try changing that to be more precise.
I cross-post everything I write on Putanumonit to LW by default, which I understood to be the intention of “personal blogposts”. I didn’t write this for LW. If anyone on the mod team told me that this would be better as a link post or off LW entirely, not because it’s bad but because it’s not aligned with LW’s reputation, I’ll be happy to comply.
I could imagine casual readers quickly looking at this and assuming it’s related to the PUA community
With that said, my personal opinion is that LW shouldn’t cater to people who form opinions on things before reading them and we should discourage them from hanging out here.
For what it’s worth, I predict that this would have gotten more upvotes here at least with different language, though I realize this was not made primarily for LW.
my personal opinion is that LW shouldn’t cater to people who form opinions on things before reading them and we should discourage them from hanging out here.
I think this is a complicated issue. I could appreciate where it’s coming from and could definitely imagine things going too far in either direction. I imagine that both of us would agree it’s a complicated issue, and that there’s probably some line somewhere, though we may of course disagree on where specifically it is.
A literal-ish interpretation of your phrase there is difficult for me to interpret. I feel like I start with priors on things all the time. Like, if I know an article comes from The NYTimes vs. The Daily Stormer, that snippet of data itself would give me what seems like useful data. There’s a ton of stuff online I choose not to read because it seems to be from sources I can’t trust for reasons of source, or a quick read of headline.
I was thinking of people who write comments without reading the post, which pollutes the conversation. Or people who form broad opinions about a writer or a blog without reading. I deal with those people all day every day on Twitter and in the blog comments.
I didn’t mean people deciding what to read based on the title. Of course everyone does that! Someone seeing ‘Go F*** Someone’ may assume that the post will be somewhat vulgar, and will talk about sex. Both things are true. People not interested in vulgar writing about sex shouldn’t read it. If I titled it ‘A Consideration of Narcissism as it Affects the Formation of Long Term Bonds’ that would actually be more misleading, since people would not expect it to be a vulgar post about sex and will get upset.
I would guess that one reason why you had a strong reaction, and/or why several people upvoted you so quickly, was because you/they were worried that my post would be understood by some as “censorship=good” or “LessWrong needs way more policing”.
If so, I think that’s a great point! It’s similar to my original point!
Things get misunderstood all the time.
I tried my best to make my post understandable. I tried my best to condition it so that people wouldn’t misinterpret or overinterpret it. But then my post was misunderstood (from what I can tell, unless I’m seriously misunderstanding Ben here) literally happened within 30 minutes.
My attempt provably failed. I’ll try harder next time.
Did you interpret me to say, “One should be sure that zero readers will feel offended?” I think that would clearly be incorrect. My point was that there are cases where one may believe that a bunch of readers may be offended, with relatively little cost to change things to make that not the case.
For instance, one could make lots of points that use alarmist language to poison the well, where the language is technically correct, but very predictably misunderstood.
I think there is obviously some line. I imagine you would as well. It’s not clear to me where that line is. I was trying to flag that I think some of the language in this post may have crossed it.
Apologies if my phrasing was misunderstood. I’ll try changing that to be more precise.
I understand your concerns.
I cross-post everything I write on Putanumonit to LW by default, which I understood to be the intention of “personal blogposts”. I didn’t write this for LW. If anyone on the mod team told me that this would be better as a link post or off LW entirely, not because it’s bad but because it’s not aligned with LW’s reputation, I’ll be happy to comply.
With that said, my personal opinion is that LW shouldn’t cater to people who form opinions on things before reading them and we should discourage them from hanging out here.
Thanks for the response!
For what it’s worth, I predict that this would have gotten more upvotes here at least with different language, though I realize this was not made primarily for LW.
I think this is a complicated issue. I could appreciate where it’s coming from and could definitely imagine things going too far in either direction. I imagine that both of us would agree it’s a complicated issue, and that there’s probably some line somewhere, though we may of course disagree on where specifically it is.
A literal-ish interpretation of your phrase there is difficult for me to interpret. I feel like I start with priors on things all the time. Like, if I know an article comes from The NYTimes vs. The Daily Stormer, that snippet of data itself would give me what seems like useful data. There’s a ton of stuff online I choose not to read because it seems to be from sources I can’t trust for reasons of source, or a quick read of headline.
I was thinking of people who write comments without reading the post, which pollutes the conversation. Or people who form broad opinions about a writer or a blog without reading. I deal with those people all day every day on Twitter and in the blog comments.
I didn’t mean people deciding what to read based on the title. Of course everyone does that! Someone seeing ‘Go F*** Someone’ may assume that the post will be somewhat vulgar, and will talk about sex. Both things are true. People not interested in vulgar writing about sex shouldn’t read it. If I titled it ‘A Consideration of Narcissism as it Affects the Formation of Long Term Bonds’ that would actually be more misleading, since people would not expect it to be a vulgar post about sex and will get upset.
A bit more thinking;
I would guess that one reason why you had a strong reaction, and/or why several people upvoted you so quickly, was because you/they were worried that my post would be understood by some as “censorship=good” or “LessWrong needs way more policing”.
If so, I think that’s a great point! It’s similar to my original point!
Things get misunderstood all the time.
I tried my best to make my post understandable. I tried my best to condition it so that people wouldn’t misinterpret or overinterpret it. But then my post was misunderstood (from what I can tell, unless I’m seriously misunderstanding Ben here) literally happened within 30 minutes.
My attempt provably failed. I’ll try harder next time.