Yes, they’re being sincere, and it wasn’t a snide comment, although it may feel that way to you because you’re feeling particularly sex-deprived. Being ungrateful for sex? How rude! That’s the best thing somebody can do for you!
Being blunt, and those who don’t want to read about my sex life should stop reading now:
I can have sex… pretty much whenever I want, as my girlfriend is always up for it. My girlfriend, however, wants more sex than I do, which means—I almost never -want- to have sex, because I just -had- sex (relative to how often I’d choose to have sex), and we’re going to have sex again before I’d want to. Relationships involve accommodations, which means she’s getting less sex than she’d choose, and I’m getting more. I’m currently working on adjusting my sex drive, with some moderate success, but that particular element seems to be more physiology than psychology, and has proven more resistant than most aspects of myself to adjustment.
Now, all that said: You’re apparently desperate for some (any?) sexual intimacy. Go get your penis pierced a few times. A frenum ladder and a few dydoe piercings should do it. It takes a month or so to heal, and you can’t have sex during that time, but that’s not an issue for you anyways right now. Two major advantages: Once healed, it feels amazing, both for you and your partner. Second, with the assistance of a wingman mentioning the fact (a wingwoman works better for this), most women will ask to see, and will be -very- curious about how it feels. It doesn’t take much effort to convert that currency into sex.
Penis piercings on google images in the library was a bad idea, haha
Thanks for the suggestions.
The dydoe is generally considered to be one of the most painful of piercings,
Reading the Wikipedia articles for those piercing now. I’m interested to hear some other LW views on whether I should get either or both of those piercings. It looks painful in the long run, like when my penis rolls around my underwear.Though I’m pretty indifferent to temporary short term pain during the actual piercings.
Yes, they’re being sincere, and it wasn’t a snide comment, although it may feel that way to you because you’re feeling particularly sex-deprived. Being ungrateful for sex? How rude! That’s the best thing somebody can do for you!
Being blunt, and those who don’t want to read about my sex life should stop reading now:
I can have sex… pretty much whenever I want, as my girlfriend is always up for it. My girlfriend, however, wants more sex than I do, which means—I almost never -want- to have sex, because I just -had- sex (relative to how often I’d choose to have sex), and we’re going to have sex again before I’d want to. Relationships involve accommodations, which means she’s getting less sex than she’d choose, and I’m getting more. I’m currently working on adjusting my sex drive, with some moderate success, but that particular element seems to be more physiology than psychology, and has proven more resistant than most aspects of myself to adjustment.
Now, all that said: You’re apparently desperate for some (any?) sexual intimacy. Go get your penis pierced a few times. A frenum ladder and a few dydoe piercings should do it. It takes a month or so to heal, and you can’t have sex during that time, but that’s not an issue for you anyways right now. Two major advantages: Once healed, it feels amazing, both for you and your partner. Second, with the assistance of a wingman mentioning the fact (a wingwoman works better for this), most women will ask to see, and will be -very- curious about how it feels. It doesn’t take much effort to convert that currency into sex.
Penis piercings on google images in the library was a bad idea, haha
Thanks for the suggestions.
Reading the Wikipedia articles for those piercing now. I’m interested to hear some other LW views on whether I should get either or both of those piercings. It looks painful in the long run, like when my penis rolls around my underwear.Though I’m pretty indifferent to temporary short term pain during the actual piercings.