It seems to scale to willpower: For some people, “a single small failure once per month” is going to be an impossible goal, but “multiple small failures OR one big failure” is an option. If and only if one is dealing with THAT choice, it seems like a single big failure does a lot less damage to motivation.
If you’ve got different anecdotes then I think we’ll just have to agree to disagree. If you’ve got studies saying I’m wrong, I’m happy to accept that I’m wrong—I know it worked, since I used this to help fix my spouse’s sleep cycle, but that doesn’t mean it worked for the reasons I think. :)
I agree, you can get over some slip-ups, depending on how easy what you’re trying is compared to your motivation.
As you said, it’s a chain—the more you succeed, the easier it gets. Every failure, on the other hand, makes it harder. Depending on the difficulty of what you’re trying, a hard reset is sensible because it saves time from an already doomed attempt, >and< makes the next one easier (due to the deterrent thing).
It seems to scale to willpower: For some people, “a single small failure once per month” is going to be an impossible goal, but “multiple small failures OR one big failure” is an option. If and only if one is dealing with THAT choice, it seems like a single big failure does a lot less damage to motivation.
If you’ve got different anecdotes then I think we’ll just have to agree to disagree. If you’ve got studies saying I’m wrong, I’m happy to accept that I’m wrong—I know it worked, since I used this to help fix my spouse’s sleep cycle, but that doesn’t mean it worked for the reasons I think. :)
I agree, you can get over some slip-ups, depending on how easy what you’re trying is compared to your motivation.
As you said, it’s a chain—the more you succeed, the easier it gets. Every failure, on the other hand, makes it harder. Depending on the difficulty of what you’re trying, a hard reset is sensible because it saves time from an already doomed attempt, >and< makes the next one easier (due to the deterrent thing).