oh, another thought—perhaps it’s going to be fine like she thinks because people like you are going to react strongly, freak out, and do something about it soberly. she’ll end up correct, but only because people like you put yourselves in the role of making a difference. many of my friends also don’t want to deal with it directly; my boyfriend is continuing to go to college, and wants to get involved in making what you describe happen, but doesn’t want to try to be the whole solution.
oh, another thought—perhaps it’s going to be fine like she thinks because people like you are going to react strongly, freak out, and do something about it soberly. she’ll end up correct, but only because people like you put yourselves in the role of making a difference. many of my friends also don’t want to deal with it directly; my boyfriend is continuing to go to college, and wants to get involved in making what you describe happen, but doesn’t want to try to be the whole solution.