So I know a neighbor of a neighbor who was once high on grass in Amsterdam where the ladies sit in shop windows and gave it a try. He said despite that said substance is a known aphrodisiac and despite she was hot, seriously kind and sweet, and eager to please, it is not good at all because due to the lack of love or lack of real attraction on her part—despite faking it - it was very much like doing a warm lifelike rubber doll. However this neighbor of a neighbor have never really had very high libido so it should be compared to him being “moderately pleased” 6⁄10 with normal intercourses and 3⁄10 with it.
However, this neighbor of a neighbor also learned that s.x with a hot body in and of itself is not a valuable thing, you can buy it for roughly the same price for twenty mins as a hotel room for a night, so you don’t put the p..y on a pedestal, you don’t worship it, and you are no longer scared by hot women as such.
However, this neighbor of a neighbor also learned that compared to how worthless s.x is, the love of a woman and the loving s.x or s.x with real attraction on the womans part is incredibly valuable and well deserves being put on a pedestal. Love is obvious enough and even not loving attraction on her part is valuable because it gives the man validation.
As a result, this neighbor’s neighbor’s feelings about hot women got kind of confused. After the encounter, he did not value s.x itself as a highly valuable and pedestal-worthy commodity, but he still valued the attraction of a hot woman and the kind of validation of she offering s.x for free because she finds the man hot highly valuable, and of course love too.
He also started wondering if this is how women tend to think about it too.
This neighbor of a neighbor spent years trying to figure it out, with fairly low motivation to chase women.
He ended up saying to the hell with it, let’s find a smart and funny and kind and really loveable-as-a-person woman and fall in love with each others brain and person, even if she does not look very hot, and there will be the occasional s.x too but it is not really a high priority aspect of the relationship.
So I know a neighbor of a neighbor who was once high on grass in Amsterdam where the ladies sit in shop windows and gave it a try. He said despite that said substance is a known aphrodisiac and despite she was hot, seriously kind and sweet, and eager to please, it is not good at all because due to the lack of love or lack of real attraction on her part—despite faking it - it was very much like doing a warm lifelike rubber doll. However this neighbor of a neighbor have never really had very high libido so it should be compared to him being “moderately pleased” 6⁄10 with normal intercourses and 3⁄10 with it.
However, this neighbor of a neighbor also learned that s.x with a hot body in and of itself is not a valuable thing, you can buy it for roughly the same price for twenty mins as a hotel room for a night, so you don’t put the p..y on a pedestal, you don’t worship it, and you are no longer scared by hot women as such.
However, this neighbor of a neighbor also learned that compared to how worthless s.x is, the love of a woman and the loving s.x or s.x with real attraction on the womans part is incredibly valuable and well deserves being put on a pedestal. Love is obvious enough and even not loving attraction on her part is valuable because it gives the man validation.
As a result, this neighbor’s neighbor’s feelings about hot women got kind of confused. After the encounter, he did not value s.x itself as a highly valuable and pedestal-worthy commodity, but he still valued the attraction of a hot woman and the kind of validation of she offering s.x for free because she finds the man hot highly valuable, and of course love too.
He also started wondering if this is how women tend to think about it too.
This neighbor of a neighbor spent years trying to figure it out, with fairly low motivation to chase women.
He ended up saying to the hell with it, let’s find a smart and funny and kind and really loveable-as-a-person woman and fall in love with each others brain and person, even if she does not look very hot, and there will be the occasional s.x too but it is not really a high priority aspect of the relationship.