Save the kid, ruin the suit; Acceptable utility exchange rates; Distributed utility calculations; Civic duties matter

This is a follow up to my rambly incoherent comment on https://​​www.lesswrong.com/​​posts/​​cujpciCqNbawBihhQ/​​self-integrity-and-the-drowning-child

Let’s put some rough math on the drowning example

Statistical value of human life is $5,000,000.

Death of a child is a massive utility loss for parents and close relatives(several of them might even be willing to die in an attempt to save the child!)...

Death of a child is a utility hit of … $15,000,000 for various people. Rough number, but I don’t think grossly inflated, if anything probably too low.

A good suit is like $5000(?).

If you think there’s a 1% chance that taking 10 seconds to take off the suit, will kill the kid, you’re expected values are -$150,000 vs -$5,000.

Now. It’s -$150,000 of OTHER people’s utility vs $5000 of your own.

But if you take the suit saving option, this implies that your exchange rate of OTHER PEOPLE utility to PERSONAL utility is like 30 to 1. That’s pretty much an awful person, in my opinion. A literal car thief converts less than 2 OTHER for 1 PERSONAL.

Society should have some standards for what individual utility functions are acceptable

Claim 1.

We should expect people to care about other people, as in there should be SOME exchange rate between OTHER utility and PERSONAL utility.

Corollary

Individual preferences are off the table. Ah but what is individual?

We firewall people’s truly … individual preferences. You like oranges or pineapples, who cares. We only require that you care SOME AMOUNT about the people around you as well. Anything purely personal is no one else’s business.

But what is purely personal? Maybe the existence of a meat eater or a broccoli eater produces negative utility for me… whatever we come up with some rule based definition of personal, if your society ends up being too intrusive you’ll find out in the violent rebellion later on.

Claim 2.

The exchange rate should probably be (less than 2 OTHER) to 1 PERSONAL.

And even that’s high. Maybe like 1.1 OTHER to 1 PERSONAL.

Also there’s some tolerance to ignoring small utility inefficiencies. Like you should give money to the homeless on the pure local utility calculation, but it’s not that big a deal. Injure someone by speeding to not miss the first 10 minutes of a movie.… yeah throw them in the hole, officer.

Also 1 − 1 is probably … not computationally efficient. Like individuals know themselves best...

Actually. Maybe 1 − 1, but with an uncertainty factor, since I’m not 100% sure how much utility OTHER person is actually gaining or losing. Hmm, but then an overly considerate person might leave net utility on the table since they overestimate the utility cost to the other person. And blabla, this is a whole tangent of its own that’s probably somewhere in the sequences anyway so whatever.

Claim 3.

For computational efficiency purposes, an individual can legitimately cap the number of other people’s utilities directly integrated into their utility calculation, as long as they have a catch-all factor for ‘the general good’.

This is tricky and I’m still not happy with the explanation.

We can’t have everyone trying to maximise everyone else’s individual utility in a weird soup chaos computation, because you get stuck in recursive update loops and it’s just too complicated to even be aware of every other individual in the world and their detailed quirky preferences.

We need rules to properly distribute the computation, the responsibility and the costs to individuals. We’re all slightly responsible for X’s problem, but who is SO RESPONSIBLE THAT THEY MUST ACT for it? We’re all trying to maximise general utility but who does the buck stop with?

So some simple rules(not exhaustive, there’s tons more in practice to bound the computation).

  • By default everyone is responsible for themselves.

  • If we see someone in ‘unusual’ trouble, try to help them.

  • If we end up in trouble, we can expect other people try to help us, so don’t panic too much and don’t be too risk averse.

  • We certainly don’t expect people to sacrifice a HUGE amount of utility for someone else, but we call them heroes when they do(“So and so died after they went into a burning building to save their neighbour’s kids, what a wonderful person! Mayor is building them a statue in the town centre”).

Why are you not required to actively seek out people in trouble? What about the people in trouble over in the next village, or on the other side of the country? Or in a different country?

Well again, this would be all-consuming and society would grind to a halt with net collapse of utility for everyone. No time to farm, there’s a guy starving 300 miles away and I’m not yet starving myself.

The expectation is that problems are solved LOCALLY by other people in a given area.

Surprise government

Plus ACTUALY WE DO actively take part in helping ‘everyone’(in our state/​nation/​thing) by setting up a government, contributing to it and expecting that it smooths out utility disparities in a total utility improving way. (Success of said entities may vary)

Which is actually a nice segway into

Why should everyone do INSERT_CIVIC_DUTY?

After all the odds of your individual vote changing the election result is very low. Well, elections are giant distributed computational exercises. If Bob alone doesn’t vote it doesn’t really affect society, but if nobody votes it’s probably really bad out there.

It’s a tragedy of the commons effect. Civic duties exist to maintain the metaphorical structure of the society. If people are shirking from those duties, well, society is resilient and it keeps trucking for a while. If too many people shirk, it all starts breaking apart.

The correct thing to do is to put a price on not voting and redistribute the money to the people that do vote.

Amazingly, that’s literally what societies do! (Since voters determine government and government determines fiscal policy).

Now the complicated reality is that voting actually doesn’t matter that much, because sometimes none of the options on the ballot are going to fix INSERT_ISSUE. What you really need is complex engagement with the politics and policies of the day, so that you vote in an informed way and select actually good politicians. But this is a very complicated phenomenon to verify, whereas voting is easily legible, so at least vote.

And in fact, civic duty dictates that you actually get involved in politics if all the options on the table suck.

Obviously I’m shirking on that just like everyone I know, and that’s probably the self-reinforcing source of my political dissatisfaction. But hey, I also need to go on a diet and I just ordered a delicious pizza.

Key takeaway

“Voting doesn’t change anything” and pretty much all cynicism and inaction promoting memes are thought parasites designed to trick people into self-disenfranchising.

If your culture-tribe doesn’t vote, expect your life to get a lot worse over time due to government negligence or even maliciousness driven by your voting enemies. This can be forestalled by other societal effects(maybe your tribe is really employable so you do really well economically), but it remains a drag even if it’s overcome by those other effects.

Plus what happens when those other effects go away? Government is a more stable feature of our lives than a given instantiation of labour market structure.