I’m not too used to “near” and “far” mode, (is this the Hanson thing?)
Yes. (He didn’t invent it, it’s called “Construal Level Theory”, but he writes about it all the time, and it seems useful.)
I don’t consider myself an expert on this, but it seems to me that the “near” mode is used for everyday tasks, when there is often quick feedback; so people use their common sense there. The “far” mode is used for things with no quick verification, or things where agreeing with the group is more important than being right; i.e. politics, religion, all abstract thoughts. I suspect a typical human brain can switch between these two concepts as needed, because it is useful to be correct when doing a simple task with measureable outcome, and to be incorrect in the right way when the group judges you by your opinion, but being factually wrong typically has little consequence.
To say it more simply, “near” mode is for eating bread, “far” mode is for talking theory. If you don’t eat bread, you die; but if all your theories are bullshit, you can be quite successful if it is the right kind of bullshit. So our brains switch between the common sense mode and the bullshit mode.
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Seems to me that what happens when you say “to be more efficient, one needs a to-do list and a schedule”, your brain automatically goes into bullshit mode. Because that’s what brains automatically do when we start talking about abstractly sounding things and theories.
That is an evolutionary feature! A thousand years ago, your ancestor would similarly say “to be virtuous, one needs to spend their whole day thinking about Jesus”, but then your ancestor would fail to literally spend the whole day thinking about Jesus, which is how he or she would actually survive. With bad but popular theories (especially when “popular” means “your neighbors will kill you if you don’t believe this”), the best thing you can do is to verbally express them, to actually believe them in some very specific sense, and then to completely forget to do them in the everyday life.
Unfortunately, your brain probably classifies the talking about to-do lists and schedules in the same category as talking about thinking about Jesus the whole day—things that are virtuous to say, but practical to forget in everyday life, where you should use your common sense (what actually worked for you yesterday) instead. And even your common sense is miscalibrated, because regardless of how you feel about your productivity, it is a fact that you survived yesterday, you probably were not even in big pain or hunger, so your brain concludes that the way you spent yesterday is actually quite good, and not worth changing just because of some abstract theory.
The mechanisms of human brain which thousand years ago could save your life, now work against you. The question is how to overcome the theory/practice barrier.
I guess you need to put a specific time in your schedule for doing this. Either something like “tomorrow between 6:00PM and 6:15PM” (and preferably set up an alarm), or “tomorrow the first thing I do after returning from school/work”. And then just stop doing everything else, and have this as the only thing to do.
If you do it successfuly a few times, I suppose it becomes easier, because your brain will register “hey, I did this yesterday and I survived”.
a lot of people seem to be “lazy evaluators”
I love this expression. I suspect it’s because “we need to think about it” (and tons of other good advice) gets classified as a bullshit-mode knowledge, not as a common-sense knowledge.
This is essentially what various kinds of coaches do. They make you use the knowledge you often already had, but they tell you to sit down and actually do it.
Ahh, that makes a lot more sense. Thanks! The part about things being “virtuous to say” but not really actually act on, really resonates with my own experience.
Yes. (He didn’t invent it, it’s called “Construal Level Theory”, but he writes about it all the time, and it seems useful.)
I don’t consider myself an expert on this, but it seems to me that the “near” mode is used for everyday tasks, when there is often quick feedback; so people use their common sense there. The “far” mode is used for things with no quick verification, or things where agreeing with the group is more important than being right; i.e. politics, religion, all abstract thoughts. I suspect a typical human brain can switch between these two concepts as needed, because it is useful to be correct when doing a simple task with measureable outcome, and to be incorrect in the right way when the group judges you by your opinion, but being factually wrong typically has little consequence.
To say it more simply, “near” mode is for eating bread, “far” mode is for talking theory. If you don’t eat bread, you die; but if all your theories are bullshit, you can be quite successful if it is the right kind of bullshit. So our brains switch between the common sense mode and the bullshit mode.
Back to your article...
Seems to me that what happens when you say “to be more efficient, one needs a to-do list and a schedule”, your brain automatically goes into bullshit mode. Because that’s what brains automatically do when we start talking about abstractly sounding things and theories.
That is an evolutionary feature! A thousand years ago, your ancestor would similarly say “to be virtuous, one needs to spend their whole day thinking about Jesus”, but then your ancestor would fail to literally spend the whole day thinking about Jesus, which is how he or she would actually survive. With bad but popular theories (especially when “popular” means “your neighbors will kill you if you don’t believe this”), the best thing you can do is to verbally express them, to actually believe them in some very specific sense, and then to completely forget to do them in the everyday life.
Unfortunately, your brain probably classifies the talking about to-do lists and schedules in the same category as talking about thinking about Jesus the whole day—things that are virtuous to say, but practical to forget in everyday life, where you should use your common sense (what actually worked for you yesterday) instead. And even your common sense is miscalibrated, because regardless of how you feel about your productivity, it is a fact that you survived yesterday, you probably were not even in big pain or hunger, so your brain concludes that the way you spent yesterday is actually quite good, and not worth changing just because of some abstract theory.
The mechanisms of human brain which thousand years ago could save your life, now work against you. The question is how to overcome the theory/practice barrier.
I guess you need to put a specific time in your schedule for doing this. Either something like “tomorrow between 6:00PM and 6:15PM” (and preferably set up an alarm), or “tomorrow the first thing I do after returning from school/work”. And then just stop doing everything else, and have this as the only thing to do.
If you do it successfuly a few times, I suppose it becomes easier, because your brain will register “hey, I did this yesterday and I survived”.
I love this expression. I suspect it’s because “we need to think about it” (and tons of other good advice) gets classified as a bullshit-mode knowledge, not as a common-sense knowledge.
This is essentially what various kinds of coaches do. They make you use the knowledge you often already had, but they tell you to sit down and actually do it.
Ahh, that makes a lot more sense. Thanks! The part about things being “virtuous to say” but not really actually act on, really resonates with my own experience.