One of the skills here is an open minded flow of discussion between parts.
To get to an open minded discussion, the agents who are shutting down discussions need to form an agreement to discuss. That means no distraction, no sleepiness, no anxiety around the conversation.
This open discussion can be done for one part at a time or for the global, “discussions are safe” paradigm.
If “discussions are safe”, then it’s possible to ask the question, “what can’t we talk about?” and find content/parts there. (there’s still things I don’t need to talk about very much, but I have no problem with them and talking about them. For example I prefer to look in an optimistic direction and point my mind there but I have no problem digging up all the fears, doubts and discomforts if that’s needed)
One of the skills here is an open minded flow of discussion between parts.
To get to an open minded discussion, the agents who are shutting down discussions need to form an agreement to discuss. That means no distraction, no sleepiness, no anxiety around the conversation.
This open discussion can be done for one part at a time or for the global, “discussions are safe” paradigm.
If “discussions are safe”, then it’s possible to ask the question, “what can’t we talk about?” and find content/parts there. (there’s still things I don’t need to talk about very much, but I have no problem with them and talking about them. For example I prefer to look in an optimistic direction and point my mind there but I have no problem digging up all the fears, doubts and discomforts if that’s needed)