If your Society is structured such that the most salient things about “women” is that they’re the ones who work in the household and take care of children—then sure, in the context of that Society, males who work in the household and take care of children are women.
In Britain in the 1950s and 1960s (and long before, but I’m limiting this to what I observed in my own lifetime), that was the position of women. Men who took on that role were not “women”. They were thought very unusual, even unnatural, and the word “househusband” was coined.
In Britain in the 1950s and 1960s (and long before, but I’m limiting this to what I observed in my own lifetime), that was the position of women. Men who took on that role were not “women”. They were thought very unusual, even unnatural, and the word “househusband” was coined.