I think it is generally a good policy not to talk about plans unless you’re specifically looking for feedback/help/advice with them. It’s hard, but I’ve been trying to avoid saying “I’ve been thinking about doing XYZ”. There’ve been a few instances I can think of where this has prompted me to:
take action when I probably otherwise would have waited
framed my desire to talk about it as “do you have any ideas?”
I think it is generally a good policy not to talk about plans unless you’re specifically looking for feedback/help/advice with them. It’s hard, but I’ve been trying to avoid saying “I’ve been thinking about doing XYZ”. There’ve been a few instances I can think of where this has prompted me to:
take action when I probably otherwise would have waited
framed my desire to talk about it as “do you have any ideas?”