My impression, from <20 conversations with you ever, is that you have obvious-to-me stuff, that probably remains largely untouched by the emotional work you describe having done. To be clear, this is completely blameless, and should not be a source of shame. However, from my perspective this mostly negates your judgements about what is right or advisable in this domain.
FYI I’m happy to have this kind of comment on this sort of post, I think it’s useful context to have. (It seems probably good for us to actually chat about it at some point, and that probably would be more fruitful as a private convo)
FYI I’m happy to have this kind of comment on this sort of post, I think it’s useful context to have. (It seems probably good for us to actually chat about it at some point, and that probably would be more fruitful as a private convo)