I don’t think they are optimal, but it may be better to embrace what traits you have than try and possess optimal trait you do not.
In my experience, it is best for me to be me. It takes a big toll on me to try and be something I’m not. There are advantages, but I sense it is a net loss.
In my experience, it is best for me to be me. It takes a big toll on me to try and be something I’m not. There are advantages, but I sense it is a net loss.