I think this is a reasonable suggestion that will help many people with the same problem. I also think it helped me when I adopted a somewhat similar algorithm, though it didn’t solve the bulk of the problem for me (it turns out to be very hard to acknowledge the absolute seriousness in a way that does threaten my internal locus of control and still satisfies the counterparts need to feel in control of the situation).
I might write a whole post about this at some point, since I think this specific problem has been the cause of at least 10-20% (and possibly more like 40%) of the emotional stress I’ve experienced over the last few years, and so I’ve put a lot of optimization power and thought into this.
I think this is a reasonable suggestion that will help many people with the same problem. I also think it helped me when I adopted a somewhat similar algorithm, though it didn’t solve the bulk of the problem for me (it turns out to be very hard to acknowledge the absolute seriousness in a way that does threaten my internal locus of control and still satisfies the counterparts need to feel in control of the situation).
I might write a whole post about this at some point, since I think this specific problem has been the cause of at least 10-20% (and possibly more like 40%) of the emotional stress I’ve experienced over the last few years, and so I’ve put a lot of optimization power and thought into this.