There’s also something like “just the right amount of friction” which enables true love to happen without being sabotaged by existing factors. There are things which cause relationship-breaking kind of issues, such as permanent long distance, disagreement on how many kids to have and when and how to raise them, how to earn and spend money, religion and morals, work/life balance stuff, and physical attraction. Then there’s the fun kind of friction where you can grow from each other or enjoy your differences—things would be bland without these.
There’s also something “true” about intent to grow together and trust each other to change each others’ values, so that you start converging over time and becoming more similar. Something like access to my core which I intentionally share trusting that the other person will use it for good.
Yeah, many pointers to the underlying concept, good luck in the dating market.
There’s also something like “just the right amount of friction” which enables true love to happen without being sabotaged by existing factors. There are things which cause relationship-breaking kind of issues, such as permanent long distance, disagreement on how many kids to have and when and how to raise them, how to earn and spend money, religion and morals, work/life balance stuff, and physical attraction. Then there’s the fun kind of friction where you can grow from each other or enjoy your differences—things would be bland without these. There’s also something “true” about intent to grow together and trust each other to change each others’ values, so that you start converging over time and becoming more similar. Something like access to my core which I intentionally share trusting that the other person will use it for good. Yeah, many pointers to the underlying concept, good luck in the dating market.