My point isn’t “who cares about emotional safety, let them filter themselves out if they can’t handle the truth [as I see it]”, but rather that these are two separate dimensions, and while they are coupled they really do need to be regulated independently for best results. Any time you try to control two dimensions with one lever you end up having a 1d curve that you can’t regulate at all, and therefore is free to wander without correction.
Thanks, this was a good neat point that gives me a conceptual handle for thinking about the overall problem.
Thanks, this was a good neat point that gives me a conceptual handle for thinking about the overall problem.