I move in circles where asking “why is X bad” is as bad as X itself. So for the avoidance of doubt, I do not think that your comment here makes you a bad person.
I’m trying to imagine a conversation where one person expresses a preference about the other’s pubic hair that wouldn’t be inappropriate, and I’m struggling a little. Here’s what I’ve come up with:
A BDSM context in which that sort of thing is a negotiated part.
The two have been playing for a while and are intimate enough for that to be appropriate.
The other person asks, and gets an honest answer.
It sounds like none of these are what you have in mind; can you paint me a more detailed example?
I move in circles where asking “why is X bad” is as bad as X itself. So for the avoidance of doubt, I do not think that your comment here makes you a bad person.
I’m trying to imagine a conversation where one person expresses a preference about the other’s pubic hair that wouldn’t be inappropriate, and I’m struggling a little. Here’s what I’ve come up with:
A BDSM context in which that sort of thing is a negotiated part.
The two have been playing for a while and are intimate enough for that to be appropriate.
The other person asks, and gets an honest answer.
It sounds like none of these are what you have in mind; can you paint me a more detailed example?