Hmm, discussing an order explicitly is generally not a taboo, and after that one can make a point of order. What is probably frowned upon is selectively creating and applying a rule to a specific person, even if that person is the reason for the rule in the first place.
My sense is that in the abstract people would say there’s nothing wrong with it, but when it comes time to actually do so in a real conversation, it’s usually awkward. Well, I think there are exceptions that aren’t awkward, but my sense is that most of the time it would be awkward.
Hmm, discussing an order explicitly is generally not a taboo, and after that one can make a point of order. What is probably frowned upon is selectively creating and applying a rule to a specific person, even if that person is the reason for the rule in the first place.
My sense is that in the abstract people would say there’s nothing wrong with it, but when it comes time to actually do so in a real conversation, it’s usually awkward. Well, I think there are exceptions that aren’t awkward, but my sense is that most of the time it would be awkward.