Worth noting that most of these are about preferences or your subjective interpretation, not objective right/wrong. I think probably keeping in mind that you are making a meta request of the person/group to compromise toward your subjective preference of communication mode, rather than ‘correcting’ someone, would make it easier. Also, then you should consider that in this compromise you probably need to come halfway, cutting in more than you’d normally be comfortable with in the fast-talking-over each other situation, pausing longer in the slow conversation situation.
Also, you can hint at desire for shifting meta modes, and that’s a much easier ‘social move’ to do and to receive than direct discussion of the issue. Hints would probably be the way to go for that last example.
Worth noting that most of these are about preferences or your subjective interpretation, not objective right/wrong. I think probably keeping in mind that you are making a meta request of the person/group to compromise toward your subjective preference of communication mode, rather than ‘correcting’ someone, would make it easier. Also, then you should consider that in this compromise you probably need to come halfway, cutting in more than you’d normally be comfortable with in the fast-talking-over each other situation, pausing longer in the slow conversation situation.
Also, you can hint at desire for shifting meta modes, and that’s a much easier ‘social move’ to do and to receive than direct discussion of the issue. Hints would probably be the way to go for that last example.