My intention is indeed to improve conversations with people I know well or semi-well. Some good questions with built-in blanks in this context are “How is your project X going?” or “What did you think of book X?”. Do you have examples of other such questions? I think the kinds of questions you would use for starting a new topic and for deepening an existing topic are likely to be different, and the latter are much more context-dependent.
It does not seem difficult to avoid being robotic/unfun with these questions, if you ask them with actual caring and curiosity, and if the motivation is not to fill silence but to learn about the other person.
My intention is indeed to improve conversations with people I know well or semi-well. Some good questions with built-in blanks in this context are “How is your project X going?” or “What did you think of book X?”. Do you have examples of other such questions? I think the kinds of questions you would use for starting a new topic and for deepening an existing topic are likely to be different, and the latter are much more context-dependent.
It does not seem difficult to avoid being robotic/unfun with these questions, if you ask them with actual caring and curiosity, and if the motivation is not to fill silence but to learn about the other person.