This is something that in my opinion would deserve a longer focused debate
I’m not sure I have much more to say (I could explain the ways those things are somewhat inevitable, but I don’t believe it’s really necessary, just like, look at humans.), since I don’t really know what to do about this, other than what I’m already doing, which is building social environments where people will no longer find it necessary to overconnect/where being intentional about how we structure the network is possible, and I would guess that once it is real and I can show it to people, there will be no disagreements about whether it’s better.
But in the meantime, we do not have such social environments, so I can’t really tell anyone to stop going to bars and connecting at random. You must love, and that is the love that there is to be had today.
I’m not sure I have much more to say (I could explain the ways those things are somewhat inevitable, but I don’t believe it’s really necessary, just like, look at humans.), since I don’t really know what to do about this, other than what I’m already doing, which is building social environments where people will no longer find it necessary to overconnect/where being intentional about how we structure the network is possible, and I would guess that once it is real and I can show it to people, there will be no disagreements about whether it’s better.
But in the meantime, we do not have such social environments, so I can’t really tell anyone to stop going to bars and connecting at random. You must love, and that is the love that there is to be had today.
I respect your effort to build an environment matching your ideals.