That’s a virtually meaningless comment. There are many kinds of lying, and many are socially approved of.
There are also many kinds of stupidity, violence, and other potentially-bad things that are socially approved of. If we grant that social approval is evidence that those kinds are net good, that’s still not very relevant to whether the grandparent is meaningful.
The content / meaning I got from the grandparent is approximately: “Don’t think of facebook tweaking as a free +1 agreeableness potion, think of it as more like (closer in conceptspace) lying and less like traditional costly sociability signaling”. Perfectly valid and meaningful, as far as I can tell.
No judgment from me as to whether that’s good advice, since I don’t know well how facebook profiles tie in to social dynamics and all that, though.
There are also many kinds of stupidity, violence, and other potentially-bad things that are socially approved of. If we grant that social approval is evidence that those kinds are net good, that’s still not very relevant to whether the grandparent is meaningful.
I wasn’t arguing “net good, therefore meaningless”, i was arguing that lying of various kinds is pervasive and
sometimes beneficial, it is far too simplistic to argue “lying degrades the signal, and is therefore bad”.
i was arguing that lying of various kinds is pervasive and sometimes beneficial, (...)
And I argued that this is irrelevant to the claim that you were apparently arguing against.
it is far too simplistic to argue “lying degrades the signal, and is therefore bad”.
I don’t see that claim being made directly, and there’s only a hint of it in connotation. Going further up the comment thread, I can see that MugaSofer apparently believes that having correct information on this is important and that lying is in this case bad, but this is not (as far as I can tell) appealed-to anywhere as argument for the claims in the comment you called “meaningless”.
So I don’t see the two claims as being causally related, and certainly not something of the form quoted above. If this is implied, it is not obvious to me and I would ask for clarification or more explanation, rather than assume it implicitly and argue against (what is then most likely) a strawman.
There are also many kinds of stupidity, violence, and other potentially-bad things that are socially approved of. If we grant that social approval is evidence that those kinds are net good, that’s still not very relevant to whether the grandparent is meaningful.
The content / meaning I got from the grandparent is approximately: “Don’t think of facebook tweaking as a free +1 agreeableness potion, think of it as more like (closer in conceptspace) lying and less like traditional costly sociability signaling”. Perfectly valid and meaningful, as far as I can tell.
No judgment from me as to whether that’s good advice, since I don’t know well how facebook profiles tie in to social dynamics and all that, though.
I wasn’t arguing “net good, therefore meaningless”, i was arguing that lying of various kinds is pervasive and sometimes beneficial, it is far too simplistic to argue “lying degrades the signal, and is therefore bad”.
And I argued that this is irrelevant to the claim that you were apparently arguing against.
I don’t see that claim being made directly, and there’s only a hint of it in connotation. Going further up the comment thread, I can see that MugaSofer apparently believes that having correct information on this is important and that lying is in this case bad, but this is not (as far as I can tell) appealed-to anywhere as argument for the claims in the comment you called “meaningless”.
So I don’t see the two claims as being causally related, and certainly not something of the form quoted above. If this is implied, it is not obvious to me and I would ask for clarification or more explanation, rather than assume it implicitly and argue against (what is then most likely) a strawman.