You think that the objection that PUA techniques use deception or untruthfulness is overblown?
I recall being surprised about how much of PUA is actually “be the kind of guy that girls want to sleep with straight away”. Assuming PUA is deceptive seems like a common flaw in many peoples’ approaches to condemning PUA; people are pretty good at spotting deception in the dating/pickup scene; without a further study of common or popular techniques I would be wary of assigning an equal prior:
I would imagine that what are considered PUA techniques can be both deceptive or untruthful and the opposite because both can be effective
I recall being surprised about how much of PUA is actually “be the kind of guy that girls want to sleep with straight away”. Assuming PUA is deceptive seems like a common flaw in many peoples’ approaches to condemning PUA; people are pretty good at spotting deception in the dating/pickup scene; without a further study of common or popular techniques I would be wary of assigning an equal prior:
To be clear I have not been trying to condem PUA.
I just starting examine a technique with HughRistik, do you categorize it as deceptive?
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