To use the food analogy, masturbation is like subsisting on flavorless but nutritionally adequate food, the proverbial “bread and water.” Sex with someone who finds you desirable is more like that rich, delicious dessert that advertisers hope you’ve been fantasizing about recently. (Note the with someone who finds you desirable. It’s important.)
If we have to use the drug metaphor, masturbation is more like giving a heroin addict all the methadone he wants.
To someone who deeply disdains human society, it probably is equivalent. Suppose that it were possible to soothe your hunger by just rubbing your stomach—how many people would do it and forgo food completely?
No, but it should be similar enough to break the analogy to starvation or heroin deprivation.
Well, that seems right, but allow me to clarify.
To use the food analogy, masturbation is like subsisting on flavorless but nutritionally adequate food, the proverbial “bread and water.” Sex with someone who finds you desirable is more like that rich, delicious dessert that advertisers hope you’ve been fantasizing about recently. (Note the with someone who finds you desirable. It’s important.)
If we have to use the drug metaphor, masturbation is more like giving a heroin addict all the methadone he wants.
I’m just questioning the idea that masturbation is to sex-starved people as food is to actually starving people.
(Course, that’s not exactly what you said either.)
To someone who deeply disdains human society, it probably is equivalent. Suppose that it were possible to soothe your hunger by just rubbing your stomach—how many people would do it and forgo food completely?
Actually, if I didn’t have to eat, I probably wouldn’t.