She didn’t live apart once but twice. She also lived/worked separately in the FTX condos (which we did not live in). And if you’re counting, the time spent apart seems relevant. It was for ~50% of the entire time she worked for us. Not scraps she had to beg for.
In both cases, she never “asked” to leave. She just informed us. Because it wasn’t our place to give “permission”, so framing this as something that she only did at great cost to her is incorrect.
Or are you referring to the one sentence where they didn’t technically say they weren’t allowed to leave. Where they said “Alice and Chloe report that they were advised not to spend time with ‘low value people’, including their families, romantic partners, and anyone local to where they were staying, with the exception of guests/visitors that Nonlinear invited. Alice and Chloe report this made them very socially dependent on Kat/Emerson/Drew and otherwise very isolated.”
Now, if you read this very carefully, technically it does just say they were “advised” to not spend time with others. But it follows up by saying that “this made them very socially dependent on Kat/Emerson/Drew and otherwise very isolated”. This very clearly implies that it was not that once we recommended that Alice postpone visiting her family to have impact. It is saying they were isolatedand it clearly implies that it’s because we told them to not spend time with others.
This couldn’t be the case if it wasn’t for the fact that we actually made them isolated. Which is indeed disproven by showing many text messages and screenshots of them hanging out with their families, their romantic partners, and locals. Of showing that Chloe’s boyfriend was invited to travel with us for 2 of the 5 montsh (a hard to fake signal). Of showing that Alice lived/worked apart from us for 50% of the time she worked for us.
Imo this comment is lowering the quality of the discourse. Like, if I steelman and expand what you’re saying, it seems like you’re trying to say something like “this response is pinging a deceptiveness-heuristic that I can’t quite put my finger on”. That phrasing adds information, and would prompt other commenters to evaluate and either add evidence of deceptiveness, or tell you you’re false-positiving, or something like that. But your actual phrasing doesn’t do that, it’s basically name calling.
So, mod note: I strong-downvoted your comment and decided to leave it at that. Consider yourself frowned at.
No, I said what I meant. And not just what I meant, but what many other people reading but not commenting here are saying; rather than count I’ll simply say ‘at least a dozen’. This response, like all her other responses, are making her sound more and more like a grifter, not an honest dealer, with every statement made. The fact that when called to defend her actions she can’t manage anything that resembles honest argument more than it does dishonest persuasion is a serious flaw; if it doesn’t indicate that she has something to hide, it indicates that she is incapable of being a ‘good citizen’ even when she’s in the right.
My primary update from every comment Kat makes is that this is a situation that calls for Conflict Theory, not Mistake Theory.
I’m having trouble following your logic. Ben’s post said “they were not able to live apart from the family unit while they worked with them” and we showed evidence that Alice lived apart from us ~50% of the time she worked for us. Are you disputing when Alice and Ben both said she visited her family? Has Alice disputed this, saying that she didn’t actually live and work apart from us from that time?
She didn’t live apart once but twice. She also lived/worked separately in the FTX condos (which we did not live in). And if you’re counting, the time spent apart seems relevant. It was for ~50% of the entire time she worked for us. Not scraps she had to beg for.
In both cases, she never “asked” to leave. She just informed us. Because it wasn’t our place to give “permission”, so framing this as something that she only did at great cost to her is incorrect.
Or are you referring to the one sentence where they didn’t technically say they weren’t allowed to leave. Where they said “Alice and Chloe report that they were advised not to spend time with ‘low value people’, including their families, romantic partners, and anyone local to where they were staying, with the exception of guests/visitors that Nonlinear invited. Alice and Chloe report this made them very socially dependent on Kat/Emerson/Drew and otherwise very isolated.”
Now, if you read this very carefully, technically it does just say they were “advised” to not spend time with others. But it follows up by saying that “this made them very socially dependent on Kat/Emerson/Drew and otherwise very isolated”. This very clearly implies that it was not that once we recommended that Alice postpone visiting her family to have impact. It is saying they were isolated and it clearly implies that it’s because we told them to not spend time with others.
This couldn’t be the case if it wasn’t for the fact that we actually made them isolated. Which is indeed disproven by showing many text messages and screenshots of them hanging out with their families, their romantic partners, and locals. Of showing that Chloe’s boyfriend was invited to travel with us for 2 of the 5 montsh (a hard to fake signal). Of showing that Alice lived/worked apart from us for 50% of the time she worked for us.
It’s amazing how everything you say trying to defend yourself make you sound even more like a grifter.
Imo this comment is lowering the quality of the discourse. Like, if I steelman and expand what you’re saying, it seems like you’re trying to say something like “this response is pinging a deceptiveness-heuristic that I can’t quite put my finger on”. That phrasing adds information, and would prompt other commenters to evaluate and either add evidence of deceptiveness, or tell you you’re false-positiving, or something like that. But your actual phrasing doesn’t do that, it’s basically name calling.
So, mod note: I strong-downvoted your comment and decided to leave it at that. Consider yourself frowned at.
No, I said what I meant. And not just what I meant, but what many other people reading but not commenting here are saying; rather than count I’ll simply say ‘at least a dozen’. This response, like all her other responses, are making her sound more and more like a grifter, not an honest dealer, with every statement made. The fact that when called to defend her actions she can’t manage anything that resembles honest argument more than it does dishonest persuasion is a serious flaw; if it doesn’t indicate that she has something to hide, it indicates that she is incapable of being a ‘good citizen’ even when she’s in the right.
My primary update from every comment Kat makes is that this is a situation that calls for Conflict Theory, not Mistake Theory.